Negotiating your salary vs accepting the initial offer
If you act
Negotiating salary
22%
If you don't
Accepting without negotiating
27%
Percentage who later regret each choice. Bars and full ledger render below.
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Last reviewed 2026-04-26
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Proxy data — no direct regret survey exists for this decision. Rates are derived from satisfaction scores and access-barrier data rather than questions that directly asked about regret. See caveats below.
Action regret
Negotiating salary
22%
no direct regret survey; 22% of negotiators got no better offer (proxy upper bound — 78% ended up with a better one)
US workers who negotiated, online panel
retrospective, no fixed timeframe
Inaction regret
Accepting without negotiating
27%
27% didn't negotiate and now wish they had
US workers, online panel
retrospective, no fixed timeframe
% who regret this choice
Negotiating salaryAccepting without negotiating
22%27%
inaction dominates — Inaction dominates — most regret not acting.
Related decisions
Semantically similar decisions — same territory, different trade-offs.
A 2024–2025 Resume Genius survey of 1,000 US workers found that 27%
didn’t negotiate and now wish they had — the cleanest inaction-regret
group in its four-part breakdown. (A widely cited 57% headline figure
covers “some regret about how they approached” negotiation, but it
bundles the 30% who regret their approach yet felt it was right at the
time, many of whom did negotiate, so it overstates pure inaction regret.)
On the action side there is no direct regret survey: among those who
negotiated, 78% say they ended up with a better offer and 22% did not,
so the 0.22 action rate is a proxy upper bound, not a measured regret
figure. The remaining tilt toward inaction is modest but directionally
consistent with Gilovich and Medvec’s inaction-dominance pattern.
Separately, a Fidelity Investments study of 1,524 workers found that 85%
of those who counteroffered got at least some of what they asked for,
suggesting the fear of negotiating is disproportionate to the actual
downside risk.
The generational breakdown complicates any simple “youth regret inaction
more” reading. Pew Research found that most US workers accepted their
initial offer without any negotiation attempt — only 32% of men and 28%
of women said they asked for higher pay. Resume Genius, meanwhile, found
that younger workers negotiate more, not less: 55% of Gen Z counter an
offer versus 42% of Baby Boomers. Negotiating more often, though, does
not automatically mean regretting less about how the conversation
went: the same survey’s approach-regret category — the 30% who regret
their approach but felt it was right at the time — is, by construction,
drawn from people who did negotiate. That is not the same as the clean
inaction regret this entry measures; it is exactly the kind of
handling-regret the 27% figure deliberately excludes.
The main caveat is measurement asymmetry. The inaction figure is
restricted to the clean 27% who “didn’t negotiate and now wish they
had,” rather than the headline 57% that mixes in approach-regret from
people who did negotiate. The action rate has no direct survey behind it
at all — it is proxied by the 22% of negotiators who did not end up with
a better offer, which is an upper bound, since not getting more is not
the same as regretting the attempt. The Fidelity study’s 85% “success”
rate counts any partial win, which may still have left the negotiator
feeling undercompensated. The direction holds, but with
the inaction figure restricted to the clean group the gap is modest and
the rates should be read as approximate.
Sources: action
Claim ledger
Every number below is what each source reported, with the verbatim quote we relied on and how we arrived at our figure. Click any link to verify directly.
[1]Resume Genius — Salary Negotiation & Expectations Report
Primary study
Of workers who negotiated, 78% say they ended up with a better offer; 22% did not receive a better offer (the survey asks no direct 'do you regret negotiating?' question)
Excerpt
“"Of workers who negotiated, nearly 8 in 10 of them (78%) say they ended up with a better offer."
”
Source data from
2025-03-04
Accessed
2026-06-30
Calculation
Resume Genius survey of 1,000 US workers, launched November 2024, analyzed February–March 2025. The survey contains no direct "do you regret having negotiated?" item, so no measured action- regret figure exists. Among workers who negotiated, 78% say they ended up with a better offer and 22% did not. The 0.22 action-side rate is a proxy: the share of negotiators whose negotiation did not yield a better offer (an upper bound — not receiving a better offer is not the same as regretting the attempt). proxy_only is set on this entry to disclose that no direct regret-framed action survey exists.
[2]CNBC / Fidelity Investments — Negotiating a job offer works: 85% of Americans who counteroffered were successful↗ 1 other entry
Reference source
85% of Americans who counteroffered on salary or benefits got at least some of what they asked for
Excerpt
“"85% of Americans — and 87% of professionals ages 25 to 35 — who countered on salary, other compensation or benefits, or both pay and other compensation and benefits got at least some of what they asked for."
”
Source data from
2022-05-13
Accessed
2026-04-26
Calculation
Fidelity Investments / Engine Insights survey of 1,524 US adults ages 25–70 working full- or part-time, conducted March 8–14, 2022. The 85% success rate corroborates the low action-regret finding: most counteroffers yield a positive outcome.
Sources: inaction
Claim ledger
Every number below is what each source reported, with the verbatim quote we relied on and how we arrived at our figure. Click any link to verify directly.
1/2 sources independently verified verbatim against the cited source
[1]Resume Genius — Salary Negotiation & Expectations Report
Primary study
27% of US workers didn't negotiate and now wish they had (the clean inaction-regret figure within the survey's four-part breakdown)
Excerpt
“"Here's how the full breakdown looked: 30% regret their approach but felt it was the right decision at the time; 29% didn't negotiate but were happy with what they accepted; 27% didn't negotiate and now wish they had; 14% negotiated well and got what they wanted."
”
Source data from
2025-03-04
Accessed
2026-06-30
Calculation
Same Resume Genius survey (n = 1,000, Nov 2024 – Mar 2025). The survey's own four-part breakdown isolates the clean inaction-regret group: 27% "didn't negotiate and now wish they had." The headline 57% "expressed some regret about how they approached their salary negotiation" bundles approach-regret (the 30% who regret their approach but felt it was right at the time — many of whom DID negotiate) onto the inaction count, roughly doubling it. The 0.27 figure is the only category that is unambiguously "accepted without negotiating, now regrets it," so it is the honest inaction-side rate.
[2]Pew Research Center — When negotiating starting salaries, most U.S. women, men don't ask for higher pay
Verified
↗ 1 other entry
Reference source
Most U.S. workers did not ask for higher pay than what was initially offered when last hired; only 32% of men and 28% of women say they did ask
Excerpt
“"Most U.S. workers who are not self-employed say they did not ask for higher pay than what was initially offered the last time they were hired for a job. ... But men are slightly more likely than women (32% vs. 28%) to say they did ask for higher pay than what was offered."
”
Source data from
2023-04-05
Accessed
2026-06-30
Verification
Excerpt independently re-fetched and confirmed word-for-word against the cited source during our grounding audit.
Calculation
Pew Research nationally representative survey (5,902 employed U.S. adults, Feb 2023). Confirms the baseline that a majority of workers do not negotiate — only about 3 in 10 (men 32%, women 28%) say they asked for higher pay — providing denominator context for the inaction-regret figure: most of the regretful population never attempted negotiation at all.
Caveats
The action side has no direct regret survey. The Resume Genius poll asks negotiators only whether they got a better offer, not whether they regret having negotiated; 78% say they ended up with a better offer and 22% did not. The 0.22 action rate is a proxy — the share of negotiators whose attempt did not yield a better offer — and is an upper bound, since "no better offer" is not the same as "I wish I hadn't tried." proxy_only is set to disclose this. The inaction rate is the survey's clean 27% who "didn't negotiate and now wish they had"; an earlier draft used the headline 57% "expressed some regret about how they approached their salary negotiation," but that figure bundles the 30% who regret their approach yet felt it was right at the time (many of whom DID negotiate) onto the inaction count, roughly doubling it. Both surveys draw from self-selected online panels, not probability samples. The Pew Research finding that most workers never negotiate (only ~30% asked for higher pay) corroborates the scale of non-negotiation but does not directly measure regret. The Fidelity study's 85% success rate may overcount partial wins. The directional finding — salary-negotiation regret leans toward the inaction side — holds, but the gap is modest once the inaction figure is restricted to the clean group. Survey data are drawn exclusively from United States samples; satisfaction and regret rates in countries with different institutional structures — labour law, employment norms, benefits systems — may differ substantially.
